Creating community & conversation around controversial topics: Interview with Ev’Yan Whitney
What happens when a casual lifestyle blogger realizes her real calling is learning about & exploring sexuality online? A new blog is born, naturally.
Sex Love Liberation is that blog.
I’ve had my eye on the creator of Sex Love Liberation, Ev’Yan Whitney, for a year now and had the pleasure of meeting and talking with her last year at the World Domination Summit in Portland, OR, her home base.
Ev’Yan is a beautiful combination of openness and strength, quiet and candidness. Her site is provocative but never vulgar. It attracts an incredibly diverse audience that comes to learn, listen, explore, and contribute from their own experiences. Her site fosters both public & private conversation.
Sex Love Liberation is a beacon of hope in a sea of sameness.
And that’s why I think it’s such an important You Economy story. I wanted to explore the motivation behind Sex Love Liberation and the experience of running a site based on such a controversial (from so many angles!) topic.
N.B. Our conversation discusses the topic of sex but not the actual content of her site. You might not want to listen to the video at work — but we’re certainly not talking about anything even remotely inappropriate!
Highlights:
- Sex Love Liberation is actually a refinement of your original personal blog, right? Tell me about how you came to honing your message down to that simple credo. (00:42)
- How do you prepare yourself first for the difficult task of putting controversial ideas out to the public and then for the thankless exercise of receiving the response? (02:43)
- “Take the criticism without letting it seep into your bones.” (5:18) Click to tweet!
- Welcome the discussion. Ruffle feathers. Make people think. (7:15) Click to tweet!
- SLL attracts an extremely diverse audience. Did you have a strategy for attracting so many different types of people? How do you foster the conversation between them? (7:30)
- Where do you see your movement & your business 6-18 months down the road? (14:01)
Discover more about Ev’Yan at Sex Love Liberation and follow her on Twitter @ev_yan.
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Will you start my fire? Interview with Danielle LaPorte
Danielle LaPorte is the high priestess of entrepreneurship, consciousness, and self-empowerment. And her white hot book, The Fire Starter Sessions, lands today.
I found this book practical yet high-level, immediately actionable yet full of long-term wisdom.
As a long-time fan of Danielle, I also found it fresh & revealing – not at all tired or recycled. This book is gold. And it just might help you make some too.
Danielle graciously sat down to talk with me about the book, gratitude, the language of visual design, barriers to entrepreneurship, co-creation, and value. It’s only about 15 minutes but I guarantee you both laughs & aha! moments in that quarter hour.
Here’s the run down:
- “Gratitude is a feedback loop that will show you where you are thriving.” (Click to tweet!) What do people thank you for, Danielle? — 0:52
- How do you use the visual language of design to better spread your message to the right people? — 2:00
- What is the greatest barrier to entrepreneurship now? Is it all in our heads? — 5:02
- How do you determine who you co-create with? — 8:04
- “Part of determining your value is how determined you are to give value.” (Click to tweet!) How can a business owner create laser focus around the value she’s providing her customers & clients? — 11:30
- What was one thing you learned about yourself in the process of writing this book & growing your business to support it? — 14:00
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Demystifying Business Models For Fun and Profit: how to know whether your business will sink or swim
Last week, Abby Kerr tweeted that, while she’s seen all manner of business blowhards (myself included) wax poetic about motivation, marketing, and productivity, she’s seen very little about actual business development: generating a business model and the like.
So I took that as a personal challenge.
Thanks, Abby.
It’s true. You won’t find much out in the open on business model generation. And what you do find might not mean much to you because it’s either meant for someone in an entirely different industry or it’s so thick in MBA parlance that you could serve it up on a plate.
So let me start at the beginning. And I promise, I’ll reveal some secret sauce at the end of this post that will have you saying, “Huh. So that’s how it works!”
Why should you even care?
Sure, developing a business model can be the drivel that MBAs talk about when they’re trying to sound important. But there is more to it than that.
Do you wonder how to get everything done during the day? Do you wonder if you’ll ever make enough money to justify the business you’ve started? Do you think the answers to your business problems always come down to more traffic, more clicks, more subscribers?
You, my friend, need to understand your business model.
What is a business model?
A business model is the system in which ideas, people, and products come together to generate revenue. In more technical terms, it’s the system in which your value proposition, customer segments, products, cost structure, and channels produce profit.
Your business model isn’t your product, your price, your people, or your value propositions. It’s all of it, working together.
Laying it all out can help you find opportunities for growth, discover what’s not working as it should, and strengthen your own understanding of just how your business works.
This isn’t a “when I have time” kind of exercise. This is now or never.
What kind of business model should you have?
Business owners often make the mistake of thinking that there are several set business models that they can choose from. And true, you could probably put some different business models under the warming lights and dish yourself out the one that looks least frightening at the time.
Unfortunately, that type of business would be about as satisfying as dinner from Old Country Buffet.
There is no perfect business model for life coaches, or knitters, or business consultants, or therapists. I wish there was. Sure there are similarities, best practices, and things that just make sense. But that doesn’t mean it’s set in stone.
In truth, your business model is completely up to you, your strengths, your skills, your customers, and your “I absolutely won’t” list. You do have one of those, right?
Where do you start?
First, you lay out all the puzzle pieces. Business models have a lot of working parts as I mentioned above.
Below, I’m laying out the core pieces. These pieces will help you determine if your idea of how to run your business is viable. As you seek to optimize your business, you’ll need to incorporate the other pieces.
When you’re ready to do that, check out Business Model Generation by Alexander Osterwalder.
You’ll want to grab some pen & paper – or open a mind mapping tool before we get started.
Products & Services
Let’s just start here, not because it’s the most important part but because it’s the most straightforward. What do you sell? What’s on the shelf? What could someone buy right now?
For example, in my business, someone could buy The Art of Earning, Email Marketing Kick Start, group coaching, or one-on-one coaching. Those are the offers on the table. They are all generating revenue, at different rates, regularly.
What do you have on the shelf? Physical products? Digital products? Services? Events? Gigs?
Write down each and put the price next to them.
People
Just who are you selling this stuff too? Who are your potential customers and where are they located? Within your “people” you might have several segments (i.e. beginner, intermediate, and advanced) who have slightly different, but distinct, needs.
For example, at Scoutie Girl, we have DIYers who are looking for inspiration & ideas, we have creative business owners who are looking for information & insight, and we have aspirational creatives who read to experience what they don’t have personal access to on a daily basis.
Write down each customer segment you have. If you know approximately how many exist within that segment, write that down too.
Channels
How are you communicating with your people? Since business in the 21st century is largely based on relationship & connection, it’s insanely important to understand just how many channels you have at your disposal when considering your business plan.
In this case, I have a bunch of channels. The blog, Twitter, Facebook, Google+, speaking, and email marketing are a few. Each of my channels hit different types of people, in different ways.
Write down all the customer communication channels you have available to you.
Activities
This is what you have to do to keep your business running, communicate with customers, and deliver value. Here I would think in terms of thriving and not just administrative tasks all businesses have in common.
For example, for Megan‘s jewelry line, her activities might include designing & developing new pieces, selling at trade shows, pursuing press mentions, researching art & design at museums, and following up with boutique & gallery owners who place orders.
Write down all the activities you need to be doing to make your business thrive.
Costs
This is how much money it takes to run your business, create what you make or offer, and find new customers or clients. It can be vastly different for different types of businesses so it’s important to know what your costs are.
In my case, my costs include email marketing services, web hosting, conference call lines, travel, and PayPal fees, among other things.
Write down everything you spend money on now (or check your tax return!).
It’s all written down. What’s next?
First, seek to better understand the business model you already have.
- What connections could you draw from section to section? Which channels line up with which customer segments? Which activities coordinate with which products? If you’re a visual person, draw out how your business looks to you based on the information you’ve just written down. If you’re more verbal, write down key statements that tie important pieces of information together.
- What appears unnecessary? As your business grows & changes, it’s inevitable that you’ll have parts of your business that just aren’t serving you. Write down what you could remove from your model to simplify your business strategy.
- What’s missing? Inevitably, there are holes in your business model. Is there an underserved customer segment? Are you underutilizing a particularly effective channel? Is there an opportunity to make a connection between a product & an activity? Write down all the opportunities you see in your model.
Next, figure out if what you have is viable.
The first thing you recorded was all the products & services you have available and how much they cost.
- Ideally, how many of each could you produce in a week? Keep in mind most freelancers, coaches, and makers can only produce “work” about 20 hours per week. The rest of the 40 hour work week is spent in support of your business (marketing, admin, learning, etc…).
- Ideally, what would your product spread be? In other words, how many of each would you like to sell in a week out of what you can produce (i.e. 10 hours of coaching, 10 hours on an ecourse OR 20 necklaces, 50 earrings, and 30 bracelets).
- Multiple the cost of each item in your product spread by the number of sales you’d like to achieve. This is the number that is your ideal income based on what you can create and how you’d like to sell it.
Now, when you take into consideration the costs to run your business, is this a number you can live with? Does it feel abundant? Does it feel scary? Does it sound ridiculously low?
Some conclusions you might draw…
You could draw many conclusions from this number.
If the number is very high… and you’re feeling like you’ve just won the lotto… How can you make those numbers reality? Can you reach more customers? Can you attract more appropriate clients? Can you better use the channels you have available to you? Can you move your product spread closer to what you’d like and further from what it is now?
If the number is very low… and you’re feeling like you’re ready to quit… How could you adjust your product spread to create better revenue? Can you raise your prices? Can you create more products by outsourcing? Could you develop a more profit-friendly product or service to boost your bottom line?
If the number just isn’t very exciting… and you’re feeling a bit bored… Can you incorporate one of those missed opportunities into your model? Can you create clearer value propositions & offers? Can you seek strategic partnerships to sweeten the deal?
The Secret Sauce
The truth is that you really don’t know how the businesses you see online (or even in your local community) operate. It’s tempting to try to replicate what you see on the surface. But you miss what’s really going on behind-the-scenes.
Behind-the-scenes is where the magic happens.
Our websites, our storefronts, our social media streams are only facades. Not in a negative way, but in an enticing, get-ya-in-the-door way. The newsletters, the inexpensive products, the retail shops – it’s all to capture the initial lead.
Often, there’s nice revenue being generated there. But it’s not enough to create a thriving business.
What makes the business thrive is how channels, activities, and customer segments are massaged over time to ready customers for a bigger, more profitable offer. You sell earrings to get the full collection purchased later on. You sell at craft shows to prime an audience & catch the attention of wholesale buyers. You deliver an ebook to prep customers to work with you one-on-one. You work in groups to ready a select few for a mastermind program.
I know, I know. You think that’s manipulative? It can be. But it’s not in most cases. In most cases, this is the model that’s required to actually build the most value into the business for both the business owners and the customer.
Everyone comes out on top when a business model is built to deliver higher & higher levels of value over time in more profitable ways.
Odds are, you’ve been focused on the front end because that’s what you’re aware of. You’ve been writing books, creating one-off art pieces, even working one-on-one with clients. But have you identified what could make your business truly profitable on the back end? Could you deliver more & better to your customers over time?
I think you can. I know you can.
Please, let me know the results of your analysis in the comments below. I’m dying to know what you do with this information.
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Wanna run with the big dogs? You may be closer than you think.
Earlier this week, I wrote about pricing. Specifically, that most business owners are selling themselves short when they price their work.
Why? They consider “the market” when they determine prices. Smart move.
If you consider the right market.
Most often, they consider a market that’s not pricing properly to begin with. They’re considering “affordability” (that’s a code word for low priority). They’re thinking about volume instead of quality.
They’re playing small because that’s the only game around. Or is it?
The Myth of Volume
What kind of businesses succeed on a volume model? What kind of businesses operate on a razor thin margin? Huge corporations: Walmart, Target, McDonald’s… They have supply chains, human resource policies, and manufacturing systems that support this business model.
You don’t. Don’t pretend volume will make your profitable. Build your business model around delivering exceptional value.
“I used to act on the principle of higher production rate equals greater return. Now I operate on higher value equaling greater return. …
“The idea is that you as an independent are the only one responsible for everything – marketing, selling, creating, building, growing – and as a result you must be very conscious of the advantages this brings to your ability to become self-sufficient within your work.”
— Adam King, How Do You Define Meaningful Work?
Run the numbers. Unless you can – or want to – create 60 of what you make every day, don’t bet on volume.
The best market to consider when pricing your work is the market you want to be in, not the market you’ve ended up in by default.
Businesses don’t thrive “by default.” Businesses thrive when they take the lead on creating something truly worthwhile, something innovative, something that goes beyond a new take on what’s already unnecessary. Businesses thrive when a product or service is the result of a hundred or more careful calculations, when every decision is derived from a distinct perspective.
So what market do you want to be in? When you dream about your successful business, who are your peers? Who is making the waves you want to make? What products or services are unrivaled in your eyes?
Why not price yourself into that market?
Actually, I’m sure you can think of plenty of reasons not to price yourself into that market. And I have plenty of ideas on that (they’re coming in my next post). For now, I want you to consider some specific examples as objectively as possible.
Ask yourself: what’s so different between these businesses & yours?
You wanna run with the big dogs?
John T Unger: an artist with perspective
John T Unger has a unique perspective:
My creative mandate is “sustainable design with an edge.” Just because we’re good doesn’t mean we have to be boring, right? I think there’s a place for rock n’ roll to dance with environmental responsibility in a house shakin’ way. If green products are to compete in the market, they need to be sexy, sleek and chic— cooler than new.
Unger creates unmistakable “firebowls” from recycled materials. He has a large & loyal following that covets his work and supports his vision.
But Unger knows the value of his work to his customers. He knows the statement — the WOW factor — it makes on the front lawn or back porch. His firebowls range from $1500 to $3000 for the readily available models.
Danielle LaPorte: an artist with strategy
Danielle LaPorte retired her $1000 business strategy sessions, Fire Starter Sessions, almost a year ago. And certainly not for lack of clients.
In addition to undying passion, unceasing discipline, and fierce spirituality, LaPorte lives & breathes strategy. Those who committed to a Fire Starter Session with her had complete faith in her ability to give them a $10k, $20k, or $50k idea. Would you be willing to trade $1,000 for $50,000? Thought so.
Decide to rise because you want to expand — your being, your life, your possibilities.
Decide to rise because super powers are meant to be activated and applied in everyday life.
Decide to rise to explore your place in the universe.
LaPorte urges her clients, readers, and fans to rise. Rise to meet her.
Natalie Chanin: an artist with a community
Natalie Chanin‘s collection of handcrafted clothing exists at once in both days gone by & the present. Texture, layers, and tone-on-tone pattern are the hallmarks of this vision-driven brand.
Chanin employs an arsenal of artisans in Alabama to create pieces that range from $3-5,000. Her customers value the unique designs, the attention to detail, and the sustainable lifestyle her clothing represents.
…early in my journey I realized that sewing traditions (and I would go so far as to say survival traditions – everything around food, clothing and shelter) were dying in my community – and communities all over. Very soon after coming home to begin my work with hand sewing, it became clear that it was important to begin to collect stories and techniques about these traditions and to work towards not only incorporating them in my work but using my work as a means towards cultural preservation.
— Natalie Chanin, interview on EcoSalon
For Chanin, who also has a line of DIY kits & books, it’s not enough to stop at good enough, or even great enough. She finds value, as do her clients, in the fullest expression of her vision & values.
Peter Shallard: an artist who fast tracks
Peter Shallard is the shrink for entrepreneurs. He caters to a specific type of clientele, tells it like it is, and is confident of the results he delivers.
But, perhaps most importantly, Shallard understands that the true value he provides to this motivated bunch of clients is an express train to greater success. These are people who are already accomplishing quite a bit. Shallard gets them to bigger & better, faster.
My approach focuses on actionable psychological insight that creates practical, measurable results, making me an ideal choice for the busy entrepreneur who wants to fast-forward success – the kind of person who wants to rapidly leave roadblocks behind and make big things happen quickly.
What’s the express train to success worth to his clients? It’s certainly worth more than the $750 per month for email consultation that is the lowest entrance price to his services.
Shallard believes in enabling enterpreneurs to achieve wealth, freedom, and social impact with as few barriers as possible. Now that’s convenience.
Who is your role model?
Your particular role model probably isn’t on this list. Maybe you dream of being the next Jonathan Adler, Rachel Zoe, Jonathan Fields, Martha Beck, or Kris Carr.
And maybe, just maybe, you’re closer than you think.
Does your business — and the way you & your customers view it — represent your proximity to this dream?
What would you need to change to bring it closer?
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88.2% of Business Owners Should Double Their Prices
Yep, that headline is not at all based on scientific analysis. But it is based on the day I spent at the Etsy Success Symposium on Friday.
I had the distinct privilege of talking business with 17 business owners. I did one after another, 20-minute quick-fire consultations.
Yes, yes I was extremely exhausted at the end of the day. Thank you for asking.
All 17 consultations were with makers or designers. I gave 15 of the 17 business owners the same advice:
Double your prices.
Of course, that’s not easy advice to give. And it doesn’t help that it’s most often met with jaws being dropped or a “but… but… but…” kind of answer.
I don’t give the “double your prices” advice lightly.
There’s lots of other information I want to know first. I want to know what kind of problems and pain points are perceived. I want to know what goals my client has.
I ask a few questions. I listen for key words. And then I make my diagnosis:
It all comes back to your pricing.
Instead of making this a post on proper pricing, I want to concentrate on how this problem is felt within a business and how it manifests itself on the outside of a business.
1) You create goals & expectations based on the market you think you’re in instead of the market you want to be in.
While Etsy sellers find themselves in a very distinct market based on the marketplace they’ve chosen, this problem can be seen in any industry.
I know you’re judging yourself & your work against others you see as competition. But who really is your competition — those who are at the same level as you now or those who are at the level you want to be at?
I would argue the latter. When I ask you to read my next book, I’m not asking you to weigh it against my peers similar work or offers. I’m asking you to compare it to Dan Pink’s or Malcolm Gladwell’s latest bestseller. That’s the bar I’m setting for myself. I want you to think of my work in line with theirs.
So are you going to create a competitive pricing strategy as compared to rookies and hobbyists? Or one compared to Jonathan Adler, Dwell Studio, or Kelly Rae Roberts?
Your pricing is one indication of quality to your customers. Your customers will use your prices to understand “how good” what you offer is. If your price means your product appears lacking in quality, you won’t get the kind or quantity of customers you want — regardless of how “affordable” your work is.
2) You wonder if you can’t earn anymore because you physically can’t produce any more work than you do now.
This is perhaps the easiest scenario in which to see the necessity of a price increase. But most often, business owners choose an incremental increase instead of a drastic price increase (like doubling).
Sure, an incremental increase might solve the problem for now. But what about 6 months from now or a year from now?
If you double your prices, you only need to generate half the sales to create the same amount of income for your business. You might cut your current workload in half!
Or, as I’ve seen over & over again, you might sell more. But that’s what we call a “quality problem.” In other words, it’s pretty great problem to have. In that case, doubling your prices means you can afford to invest in better tools, experienced labor, or more efficient processes to streamline your work. You’re not trying to grow your business on razor thin margins anymore!
But let’s say you start selling a good bit less. My advice is to take that extra time and use it to create a product that is leveraged. Something that can be replicated over & over again quickly. Something that has a very high profit margin. Something that gets you a lot of attention in all the right ways.
You need time & energy to create something like that with your business. You can create it by doubling your prices.
3) You choose to create things that you know will sell instead of what stretches your ambition.
All over Etsy, all over the blogosphere, all over main street, you see businesses spring up that are based on proven business models or popular trends. Their products are a guaranteed sell. Their customer base is easy to spot.
They will make sales. And those businesses will measure those sales as success.
But there’s a lot more to success than number of sales. Profit margin is one. You can make a bunch of sales but if you’re operating at a loss, you won’t last long.
Customer loyalty is another. When everyone is doing the same thing and offering the same kind of product, it’s very difficult to generate customer loyalty. It’s near impossible to gain business from word of mouth.
Longevity is yet another. How long can the same old thing last? The first few might stand the test of time. But copies of copies of copies are not long for this world. You don’t see many xeroxes in the Louvre.
Push yourself to the edge. Create something you never thought you could. Don’t do what you know you could do to make sales. Do what you dream of doing to make sales. And then dream a little harder.
Sure, the edge is an equally difficult place to survive. There is quite a bit of uncertainty. But its rewards far outreach the rewards of doing what’s certain.
To be sure, creating at your edge doesn’t always require doubling prices. But thinking about doubling your prices (or 10x-ing your prices) will certainly push you to your edge — and that’s a nice place to start.
Does this apply to me?
This is not simply a lesson for makers & designers. This is a lesson for all business owners. It’s an opportunity to challenge your assumptions about what you create, who you sell it to, and how you exchange value within the system.
While not everyone should double their prices, and yes, maybe not even 88.2% of business owners, it’s a worthy experiment in understanding yours & others perception of your business.
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